https://youtu.be/Ke5_tC71K9k Summary- When You Confront A Narc/Borderline/Difficult Mother? If you confront a mother high in Narcissistic Traits- there is a reason it will not go well. The psychological defenses or coping mechanisms she uses to keep herself from...
Recognize the Effects of the Good Daughter Syndrome
Is It Worth It? 5 Hidden Costs of STAYING in Contact with a Narcissist
Should you go or should you stay? That's the question that keeps many daughters of narcissistic mothers up at night. There's always another event, a holiday, a birthday... but speaking up doesn't work either- it just gets you into more hot water. Sometimes, it just...
Unmasking The Covert Narcissistic Mother- How She Appropriates and Undermines Her Daughter’s Successes
https://youtu.be/TUQxyfKXR8g Unmasking the Covert Narcissistic Mother Mirror, mirror on the wall, who's the fairest of them all? This timeless line from Snow White holds a deeper meaning, mirroring the complex dynamics between a covert narcissistic mother and her...
The Pitfalls of Over-Explaining Yourself to a Narcissistic/ Borderline/Difficult Mother
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/scUOqC5ODQI The Pitfalls of Over-Explaining Yourself to a Narcissistic/ Borderline/Difficult Mother Having a difficult or challenging relationship with a mother who exhibits narcissistic or borderline personality traits can be...
Guilt-Tripping Mother? How To Break Free, Guilt Free
READ/WATCH/LISTEN Does your guilt-tripping mother say- "I guess I'm just a HORRIBLE mother..." "After ALL I've done for you ..." "I won't EVER give you my advice again..." "I was JUST trying to help..." "I guess you didn't THINK about how I might feel..." "I don't...
BPD Mother: 7 Negative Ways She Can Affect Her Daughter And Why
( Please note- The following specifically focuses on the experience of daughters parented by mothers with untreated BPD. Not every symptom will affect every daughter, and certainly not to the same degree. My observations are based on 30 years of clinical practice and...
Controlling Mom? 5 Steps to Break Free
( How to break free from an overbearing and controlling mother) A manipulative, intrusive, overbearing, micromanaging.... controlling Mother can make your life miserable. In the extreme, it can be soul-crushing and do violence to your sense of agency, leaving...
Why Am I So Hard On Mothers?
( If you would rather listen -go to the end of the post for the audio version) If you've landed here... you know I've created an entire website devoted to calling out difficult mothers and helping their daughters. Yikes! I've taken the hardest job on the planet...
How to Deal with an Elderly Narcissistic Mother: 12 Tips To Save Your Sanity
(How to deal with an elderly Narcissistic mother- READ/WATCH/LISTEN) You thought Mom was a handful when she was in her prime. WELLLLLLLL, Just when you thought it couldn't get any worse. SURPRISE! Instead of softening with age and becoming...